You are crazy about him. He is crazy about you. You are falling in love, lust or both. If you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, all you need to do is get him to make a move.

Step 1 – How to Get Him to Make a Move

Plan ahead. While spontaneity and serendipity can definitely work in your favor, if you are on a mission, setting up the right time and place can increase your chances of successful seduction. Think privacy, comfort and setting the mood. Music, soft lighting, perfume or scented candles and fresh sheets can all help you move him toward the bedroom.

Step 2 – How to Get Him to Make a Move

Project confidence. Men tend to be most comfortable with women who are comfortable with themselves. Turn any nervousness into anticipation of the upcoming festivities. Whether you are falling in love or falling in lust, speak and move like you are happy to be yourself, and happy to be with him.

Step 3 – How to Get Him to Make a Move

Touch him. Encourage him with physical cues like holding his hand, taking his arm or brushing his knee with yours. Smooth his sleeve or lightly touch his shoulder as you talk. Move close, and then move closer.

Step 4 – How to Get Him to Make a Move

Show how much you like him. Ask him questions about himself and be a good listener. This builds trust and lets him know that you are genuinely interested in him. Compliment him sincerely by telling him some of the many reasons that you like him and find him attractive.

Step 5 – How to Get Him to Make a Move

Make eye contact by looking directly at him and holding his gaze. Nothing communicates desire and confidence like a lingering glance.

Step 6 – How to Get Him to Make a Move

Look the part. This means wearing an outfit that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Whether your style is sexy, classic, cute or a combination, the right outfit, hairstyle, makeup and jewelry can help you set the tone for the evening. Wear what makes you feel attractive and he will feel how attracted he is to you.