Like all good things in life, your arrangements will come to an end at some point. This doesn’t have to be a bad thing, however, and you might well be the one ending the relationship. Whether it is you or him choosing to end the relationship, once the decision has been made to end it, both you and him need to respect that decision. The majority of relationships, even those based on love and not money, eventually fail, so you shouldn’t be surprised when this one does too. Be Grateful If the arrangement is working out well in the sense that he is giving you everything you have been looking for – money, gifts, designer clothes and exotic holidays – it is unlikely to be you that ends the relationship. Don’t be angry or do anything silly. You must allow the relationship to end amicably. If you have been a good sugar daddy, you will be walking away from this with more money and more assets than you had when you entered the arrangement, so you have to be grateful. When he tells you he wants to end the relationship, you have to be upset, but don’t be mean or rude. Shed some tears, but don’t go overboard. If you are in public when he tells you, cry a little and then tell him you’d like to go home now and be alone. The next day, ‘phone him and say that you understand and while you are upset, you respect his decision. Thank him for all his generosity throughout the months/years of your relationship.
It is important to be amicable in the breakup because firstly, you never know if he might want to get back together with you in the future and you never know if you might wind up getting involved with one of his friends or business associates. It will also stop him from trying to seize assets he ‘gifted’ to you or anything else like that. You really don’t want to burn any bridges. After all, it’s a small world, and the World of Sugar is even smaller still.
When the arrangement is over, it’s time for you to decide whether you want to enter into another Sugar relationship or if this was enough for you free sugar daddy. Either way you have to move on emotionally and financially from this one.
You might feel like you don’t want to get involved with another Sugar Daddy. Perhaps you prefer to go for a standard relationship with a normal person, a relationship not based on money. Perhaps you prefer to be single for a while, that’s up to you. From my experience in Sugar-dating and the experience of my Sugar Baby friends, however, I can tell you that most women are dying to get back on the dating scene, looking eagerly for the next Sugar Daddy to fill the boots of the last one.
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